My name is Anita I'm a single never married, I am a woman who goes the extra mile for those I love. I am about respect ,honesty and expect nothing less from those that are a part of my life. Here we go! I was told by a male friend to put on here what I look for in a man and to be honest because men who matter will stay. I would love to find a man who has a honest heart,liars need to keep moving because I find out at one point or another. a man who needs to find his best friend. a man who is tired of the stupid games people play to get someone a man who knows what he wants in his life. a man who is financially secure, I would be a fake woman to say it doesn't matter. the man who needs a woman who would always be there for him. a man who doesn't need a mom, cook, dishwasher,or a maid. a man who wants to grow old holding the hand of the woman who truly loves him. a man who can make me laugh when I want to cry. I want to fall in love and have the same back. I am a loving person and would love the children of the man who is for me. I would like a man who knows how to open a door for a woman, surprise me with when I least expect it, in a good way of-course. a man who still knows how to court a woman. who enjoys spontaneity. who enjoys a rainy night, long drives on a lazy weekend just because. My list is long and not even finished! but if your still reading this then maybe I've gotten your attention. I would like to know if honesty still pays off. I want you to know that for everything I ask I give back as well. I am not into players with drama,games, after sex only and who they can get for a one night stand, and so forth and so on. I look foward to seeing what comments I get back.