It's hard for me to describe myself, I think I probably see myself much differently than others do, but hey, always up to the challenge. I am shy but outgoing, timid but strong, a loner but loves to be around people. It all depends on who I am with and how familiar or comfortable that I am with them. I am very educated, not necessarily from a collegiate accomplishment level as I am street wise and in tune with my surroundings, making me more often comfortable than anxious. I have spent a lot of time alone for the last few years,because I took a good look and did not like who I saw anymore so I took the time out to get to know myself and change those values and attitudes I did not like and
made sure the change was what is me.had more adventures than I sometimes can remember, but they have all been educational and I am glad they happened and I experienced them.
I think confidence is the greatest asset a person can have, both in themselves and in the environment around them. I like a woman who has achieved self actualization, that is not dwelling on what happened way back when but what could happen today or tomorrow. Those that dwell in the past are not around me very long, I spot them from miles and run fast. I enjoy dancing, great conversation, intelligence, not necessarily from the academic side, but common sense and the ability to think through things. I like a woman that can carry a conversation and is not afraid to learn or to teach for that matter. I want it all and will not settle for less, but at the same time, want that person that can stop and smell the roses and appreciate the time he has on this earth, knowing it is not forever. I also like the woman that is not looking to get married as the only reason to meet, but someone that is looking for a deep friendship