I am an attentive and caring widowed woman looking for my soulmate. If you have a witty sense of humor and u are looking for a mutually giving relationship with a honest and genuine woman, then I might be the one you have been looking for. I am not a person who plays with others emotions and will not tollerate that in anyone else, however, I do feel that I have a great deal to offer the right man and am very open to exploring my possibilities in the dating arena. .I love kids,I love dancing(Its part of my life).Some words that describe me: intelligent with a subtle, clever sense of humor (think Jon Stewart), laid back with a confident personality, just a little bit of attitude (playful, not arrogant), well-dressed, good taste, clean cut, nice smile, well-groomed, down-to-earth, an occasional wild side,affectionate, and a great conversationalist.i can be blunt at times but whatever i do has a reason...i dont like being taken for granted cos i love being respected,i love to make people around me laugh and i always feel sorry for the less priviledge. I think the key to happiness is a positive attitude. I can't control what happens to me, only how I react to it.