I spent the last 15 years being dad for the most part, and not really spending a lot of time being me. I have two incredibly amazing sons, that will always be the world to me, but they are now off to college and both are out of state, so time for dad!!! I am not really sure what my hobbies are anymore, since it seems most of mine revolved around what my sons were doing the last 15 years. I do like music, especially classic rock, nor really into country at all. I do like to read when I can find the time, I like the classics, and I am a HUGE fan of JD Salinger. I very much enjoy the arts, love live theatre, more than you can imagine, and have been known to spend the day at the Art Institute, mostly with the Impressionist, love Monet. I do enjoy sports, but don't let it drive my life, i have female friends that watch SportCenter more than I do. Being a dad will always be a big part of who I am, so you need to understand that. My kids come first for me, they probably always will, but there is plenty room in my life for someone else.