I am gentle, friendly, kind, giving, honest, respectful, compassionate, hard working, adventurous, laid back, open minded. I always look for the good in others and give everyone the benefit of the doubt (sometimes I get burned, but that is OK ... I try to learn from those experiences). I am a good listener. I like hearing what others have to say and understanding their perspective. ... there are many shades of grey in my world. I believe in using one's judgment and doing what is right ... following the rules by the book is not always the right thing.