I recognize I will have to learn to date all over again with the changes in life, the times and me. I will handle this with grace and poise. At least I hope you say so! When I do meet someone mutually attracted to each other, then I am looking forward to the adventure of getting to know that interesting, bright and happy lady and enjoying each others company. Then I will be what I have been for the past 21 years. Total loyal, fateful and reliable to that lady in my life.My friends and family consider me a very grounded responsible man, who is very loving but strong. Friends and family seem to consider me competent, very tolerant, not shy but not brash either. I am the custodial parent with my son living with me, a good very independent kid of amazing poise, charm, and whit, if you like me you will like him. He is the center of my world and very engaging pleasant company when she is involved..