"A successful career beats the alternative, but it can come at a cost. Yes, I am in good health,
financially secure, and beyond, but I miss not having a special someone to share that/them with.
And to be shared with. I am not necessarily looking for someone like me (God no), but someone of
depth, a great sense of humor (you will need it), and comfortable in her own skin. I love the
broader world and enjoy traveling, but I am also happy on my old boat or in front of a fireplace.
I don't need to be going someplace all the time, just as long as I know there is a someplace out
there that I have not yet experienced or one that I want to experience again, with
you.nnFinancially secure but not yet free of the business world I call mine. I work because it
will soon allow the freedom to do the other things on my bucket list. Iā??m not one of those who
will always work because it defines me; no, it leads me to places that I will find new definition.
Writing, painting, traveling, giving back (again) to causes that cause people to be safe and to
grow emotionally and spiritually.nnnnI donā??t date much. Being comfortable with my life doesn't
require that I stay busy and social. Laughs, discovering new things and great conversations are an
enticement for me, not an escape. Iā??m not necessarily looking for marriage; I donā??t consider
myself a half person without a mate (losing oneā??s spouse to cancer puts many things in
perspective, even if at first they seem out of focus)