Am janet clesson from california bakersfield...............I have been searching for love now for a very long time. I have looked for it, I have let it find me, but I can't seem to find the right person. When I am in a relationship, it never seems to work out. I think it has a lot to do with me choosing the wrong men, and also me having so many insecurities and issues to deal with. How will I ever find love and keep love? I have been single now for a little over a year. My last relationship was with my daughter's father. Also, being that I have a 2 year old, I don't want her to see men coming and going. I want a stable, secure, long lasting relationship. But it never works out that way for me. What can I do to find sincere love and keep it?