In summary, I am a "young" successful 52 year old, who takes his health and appearance very seriously. I'm looking for a �?? young at heart�?? lady for a serious long term (forever) relationship. I have been a widower for 3yrs. My glass is 7/8 full, I fully enjoy life, and have no tolerance for pessimists or complainers . I have a secure career, am comfortable financially, and enjoy a relaxed lifestyle including flexible work hours, travel, outdoor activities, tennis/racquetball, and socializing with people..